Who is a successful person briefly. Who is a successful person? They make an immediate impression.

Very often my clients put a request - "I want to become successful person!”, and very few of them can answer the question, what kind of successful person is he? By what criteria do they determine success? Usually the answer is: “rich” (as a variant of “wealthy”) and the less specific “he is doing well” ...

So. Let's take a closer look at the concept of "successful person" and directly "success" itself.

Much can be said about this, but in short and to the point, then success is the achievement of a goal and the state of satisfaction (happiness) from this. Indeed, is it possible to consider a successful person who did not fulfill a single of his desires, did not complete a single task and did not achieve anything in life that he planned? Probably not. Can we consider a successful person who has achieved his goal, but does not experience satisfaction or happiness from this? Probably not. Therefore, success is probably a state of happiness from the achievement of one's goals.

So. A successful person is one who has a goal that he has realized, or is embodying now, because every intermediate one can become part of an even greater goal. If you have a real goal, and you are taking actions (steps) to achieve it, then you are already on the path to success. So the bigger the target, the better!

And attributes in the form of an expensive car, apartment, have a nice rest in a luxury hotel, it's all an increase in freedom, a by-product of success (if that's what you want). But I want to emphasize that money should not and cannot be the goal, it is only an intermediate stage that makes it possible to get something more important and meaningful for you.

A little about the goal, this is important: the goal should be yours, and not imposed by society, family or someone else, because. Goal setting is also extremely important. I like the SMART (specific, achievable, measurable, result-oriented, time-bound) formulation. In my training, the effectiveness of which has been proven by many participants, I use it, adding an emotional component. And then I apply a certain algorithm, compiled with the help of, in order to teach the subconscious mind to find the shortest path to its achievement. I love the simplest and shortest paths to success!

Whether you use consultants or training to help you achieve your goal faster and easier, or decide to go it alone, the criteria for goal and success remain the same.

I emphasize that the goal is yours - this is extremely important, also because a successful person wants to realize his goal. Desire is one of the first steps to success.. Burning, real ... there are other steps, they are important to achieve the goal and it is important to do them consistently and continuously ... By and large success is an IDEA AND A BURNING DESIRE. If both components are present, then everything else appears. And the action, and the incentive, and the result! If you do not have an idea, connect your imagination and implement someone else's idea! The main thing is to believe!

I advise you to read N. Hill's motivating book "Think and Grow Rich" ... several times ... the most important thing is between the lines :). This is an amazing book! The knowledge I gained and incorporated into my training has helped many of my clients achieve their goals and become successful.

A successful person has some qualities that you should develop in yourself:

1 - diligence

2 - patience (the path to great success is most often a long and multi-stage process, so patience is necessary)

3 - perseverance

4 - purposefulness (striving for the goal)

5 - decisiveness (successful people are distinguished by the ability to quickly make a decision and be reluctant to change it)

6 - faith in yourself.

And a few more characteristics of a successful person. The development of communication skills with people, the habit of planning working time, the ability to set priorities, the development of creativity and erudition, love for one's work and professionalism, activity, optimism, responsibility and commitment, mental stability, the ability to handle finances, honesty - all this is possible develop in yourself to simplify the road to success.

And remember, a successful person will look for opportunities to succeed, and an unsuccessful person will look for excuses why he will not do it.

And once again we will return to desire and faith. They are formed in the subconscious, so you need to make contact with him in order to encourage the materialization of a dream (goal). But the subconscious is not the kind of "audience" that is easy to find an approach to. You must speak her language, otherwise you will not be heard. And the language of the subconscious is the language of feelings. Seven basic positive feelings: Desire, Faith, Love, Sex, Enthusiasm, Romance, Hope. It is with these assistants that your subconscious will willingly help you in realizing any of your true goals.

A little bit about doubt… Doubt is normal. This is true for any sane person. Doubt is dangerous only in one case - if you sit on the sofa, doubt and don’t move anywhere ... And if you doubt, weigh the pros and cons, make decisions and make efforts to achieve your goal and gain success, then you can and even need to doubt ... Sometimes 🙂

In order not to diminish your resolve, try not to discuss what you are doing with those people who can shake your confidence in success, and in general it is better to avoid whiners and pessimists who have not achieved anything in their lives. You should surround yourself with like-minded people.

And I wanted to say one more thing. important point, which many miss ... All our attempts, every step we take to achieve success is our life, enjoy the process itself, and then success will be brighter, and life will be more eventful and complete. Do not think that you will begin to truly live when you succeed. You live right now!

If it seems to you that this is difficult, think about the fact that in fact, we create the biggest obstacle in achieving success for ourselves by our own disorganization, illiteracy, fears, complexes and insecurity. And each of these negative moments easy enough to overcome.

And remember - temporary defeats are normal. A successful person sometimes experiences such moments, but they do not make him less successful, because after a few failed attempts he will make a successful attempt, and he will succeed. And I'm sure that any of you will have to make a lot less unsuccessful attempts than Thomas Edison, who took 10,000 such attempts ... but as a result of one successful attempt, an electric light bulb appeared.

P.S. The story of every great success is unique. Write your story! 🙂

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Being successful: what does it mean?

Option number 1

You can consider yourself a successful person if you can learn from your defeats, becoming only stronger. No one has yet managed to build their own life without mistakes, because they are part of an amazing journey to a more perfect self. To realize this is already a great achievement.

Option number 2

A successful person is one who refuses everything that does not make him happy, does not help him achieve his goal, and drags him down. This behavior can be confused with the manifestation of self-centeredness, but in fact it is a sign of moral maturity. The appearance of selectivity should only be rejoiced at and developed in every possible way. By getting on the right path, you can consider yourself successful.

Option number 3

A successful person is always betrayed by a “positive” speech. This is understood as the absence of complaints and the syndrome of ONZH (“resentment for an unfair life”). Many people express their dissatisfaction with poor work, rising prices, not such a president, etc. By saying such phrases, they attract negativity into their lives and aggravate their own situation. Successful people pronounce much more words with a plus sign: “I will achieve”, “I will succeed”, etc.

Option number 4

One of the main signs of a successful person is the harmonious relationship that he builds with the people around him - colleagues, friends, parents. But constant conflicts and scandals speak of emotional immaturity.

From the point of view of psychology

What does it mean to be successful in terms of psychology? This refers to views on life and on relationships between people. The latter can be divided into friendly and business.

Here are the signs of a successful person:

A responsibility. The person realizes that results are achieved only with an appropriate attitude towards their implementation. Such a person tries to effectively solve the problem for which he undertakes. For others, he looks reliable, aware of the value of words and deeds.
Discipline and self-control. A rare person is able to achieve something without the proper level of self-organization. The end result depends on how much an individual can discipline himself.
Ability to learn and think effectively. An effective person never thinks he knows and can do everything. Therefore, at any time, if necessary, she is ready to master a new amount of knowledge and skills for the optimal way out of the current situation. Such a person not only accumulates knowledge, she analyzes it, leaving well-established methods of resource management.
Willingness to set goals. The individual must want to achieve something in life. The desire and ability to set goals is a determining factor in how successful his further actions will be in the future.
Ability to plan and achieve results. Any idea requires competent planning and implementation. This step is a natural extension of the desire to set goals. The most important thing is to think good idea, draw up a plan that would take into account possible risks, and to follow it, despite the varying difficulties. This means that a successful person will not back down and give up.

Diligence. Work as a process in skillful hands brings pleasure. And for those who do not understand why it is needed, it is a heavy burden. An accomplished person enjoys work, because he realizes why this is being done and what specific result the work will lead to.
Energy and healthy lifestyle life. Health is a resource like any other. Therefore, in order to productively translate goals into reality, it is worth paying attention to the preservation of this asset. An energetic lifestyle directly affects the perception of the surrounding world, and therefore leads to growth in the implementation of plans.
A sober look at things and self-confidence. A smart person understands that in life nothing falls from the sky and is not given for free. He understands that everything must be achieved through hard productive work. The accomplished individual must himself be the master of his own circumstances. A self-confident person understands that most of the obstacles that appear on the way are surmountable, and some exist only in the imagination.
Circle of friends. A person who values time will not waste it on people who are not able to give him anything in any respect. This may be expressed in the fact that he excludes from the circle of communication persons who do not know how to keep their word. He is guided by the principle "for you, those people who take up most of the time are more important to you." Therefore, people who want to be successful try to exclude from their circle those who are a certain kind of ballast.
Effective time management. The ability to manage time well is worth a lot in itself. Time is far from an infinite resource that can be scattered at will. An organized person will always be able to answer where he will be at one time or another.

The first sign of a successful person. An obsession with competition.

First of all, successful people are simply obsessed with competition. No matter what they should be faster, better, bigger or stronger. They have only one desire - I will do it better than you. And in the capitalist environment, everything rests on competition. Capitalism itself is based on competition.

Sports are based on competition. All politicians who convince us that they are the best candidates in the elections and achieve the highest positions are usually the strongest contenders. They strive to be first.

Imagine there is working environment and it has the best worker. Like any office or sports team, there is a better player. And suddenly a new player appears and joins the work team or sports team. He immediately sees the best worker opponent. Everything that the first does, the second repeats. Diet, discipline, schedule everything, because he wants to be better. And if the second competes better than the first, he will overtake him. That's how life works.

The second sign of a successful person. They get things done.

If successful people do puzzles, they don't stop until they're done. If they play a game, then they must complete this game. If they read a book, they should finish it, and this is an indicator. There are people who read only two chapters of a book and this is a sign that they do not like to go to the end. They are looking for the easy way. And the one who goes to the end, does it in everything and looks for a way to complete what he started.

The third sign of a successful person. Your environment earns more than you.

Your environment should earn more than you. They should be better than you in life, finances, profits. If your environment is richer and more successful, then sooner or later you will catch up with them. It's a formula, not a simple coincidence.

This is why many unsuccessful people often like to surround themselves with people of a lower level in order to appear better against their background. Successful people always surround themselves with more successful people as they strive to achieve the same level.

The fourth sign of a successful person. The brain works non-stop.

The brain of a successful person is always working non-stop. These people regularly think: what if this happens?, what if I can do the same?, what if I talk to him?, what if I go to a meeting?, we should do it, remember we discussed this this morning, if we Let's do this, we'll get this. Their brains do not stand still, they are constantly thinking about something.

The fifth sign of a successful person. How competent people evaluate you.

How competent people see your success. Suppose I met Ivan. Ivan knows the director, the football coach, his uncle and another person he works for. And they all say that Ivan will succeed, he is successful. These four people can back it up with the facts that he will succeed.

Why are these four constantly meeting with Ivan? Because they know everything weak sides, all his habits. They know if he can get things done. Does he prefer to surround himself with more successful people? They know that he has the characteristics of a successful person and treat him with authority. Competent people believe in you. These people believe in your success.

The sixth sign of a successful person. Learn new things.

Successful people are always improving. They don't know how to do it any other way. They want to learn about this, to improve their skills in this area and in another. They are always trying to learn more and learn more.

1. You say yes to things that are not important to you and that you don't have time for.

Respect your time and energy by focusing only on the people and things that really matter. Even if you plan your time, it won't help you. Because you will spend it on recovering from unnecessary things done.

2. You think of yourself as if you are incapable of success.

We've all felt the need to improve our looks in order to impress someone. We also know that we don't have to do something specific, but we do it anyway. This is the main sign of disrespect. It is not enough to understand, it is important to do the right thing. And if we are not good enough for someone or something, this is not a reason for sadness and disrespect for ourselves. The truth is that these things are not good enough for you.

3. You often agree with what they say, just so as not to offend the interlocutor.

Our opinion matters, and when we don't express it, it shows that it doesn't really matter. And those around you see it. If someone is offended by our honest and thoughtful opinion, then they did not need the truth and they did not want to hear anything. They were simply looking for a person who could always agree with their opinion. Show respect to others by only saying what you think. Moreover, this way you will show that you can respect yourself.

4. You put the needs of others before your own.

You will never help yourself if you prioritize the needs of others. Ignoring what you need in terms of rest, relaxation and general well-being is detrimental. We work better, are more productive, and emotionally stable when we take care of ourselves.

5. You feel guilty if you do what you need to do. Especially if someone told you to do something different.

Seeking advice has a place in our lives, but it's important to remember that it's only advice. Whether you gave it or received it from someone, you shouldn't feel guilty just because you didn't. It just means that he wasn't quite right at the time. Don't feel guilty that you acted inconsistently in relation to the advice you received and were able to make your own decision, which you really need.

6. You don't defend your position.

No one thrives on conflict, and sometimes it's easier to just step aside. You must balance yourself and your position in order to protect yourself. To show respect for yourself, it is important that people know the truth about you and the role you play in certain situations. Sometimes, you need to make a decision to correct the wrong course of events. And sometimes, to improve the already positive course of things. Either way, creating a crisp and clear picture is the ultimate sign of self-respect.

7. You often hide your feelings.

Man is a combination of feelings and emotions. But society has taught us to keep them secret so as not to make everything around us uncomfortable and so that other people do not look at you sideways. You don't respect yourself every time you say it's okay, but it really isn't. Be true to yourself. It defines you as a person and shows others that you are capable of being real.

8. You often seek the attention of others.

The only attention that really matters is the attention we give ourselves. When we pay attention to others, we are simply looking for external confirmation of what we probably already know. If you find yourself seeking someone else's approval, take a look at yourself and see what you're really missing.

9. You often try to please others by being a weak person.

Each of us has the ability to influence our own happiness, and when we are happy, we want others to experience the same. The problem is that trying to make others happy leads to the fact that you yourself will lose these emotions. You become devastated by unsuccessful attempts or exhausted after achieving the end result. We can bring about the biggest change by focusing solely on ourselves. As Mahatma Gandhi said, "Become the change we want to see in the world."

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In my opinion, the success of a person can be assessed by two criteria: external and internal. External are signs of success socially approved in a given culture (status, condition, social position, etc.). Internal - these are the individual criteria of each individual person, according to which he classifies (or does not classify) himself as a successful person. And they can either coincide with the external ones (in whole or in part), or be completely different. If a person relies in his life activity only on external criteria, then he gradually becomes strongly neurotic (since the competition is high) and may completely lose himself, his needs and values in this race for external attributes of success. This is fraught with disappointment in adulthood, dissatisfaction with life and the inability to effectively resolve existential crises. But the second option (relying only on internal criteria) is also not ideal, it can lead to a complete separation from reality, a decrease in social adaptation and even social rejection.

Therefore, the mixed option seems to me optimal, when a person relies on both external and internal criteria, compiling them in an individual and acceptable proportion for himself. At the same time, it is important not to forget every time in the process of moving towards success to check your well-being (both physical and psychological), be able to hear your basic needs and not ignore them.

If we talk about strategies for achieving success, it seems to me that important elements any of them will be the following things:

perseverance. Success comes as a result of many efforts, usually does not come to those who make only one effort on the way to it.
the ability to deal with failure. This must be done by allowing all the feelings that arise as a result of failure to manifest and live in your body, to be able to express these feelings, then after anger, despair and emptiness, new impulses, new energy and new resources will come to you.
attitude towards success. If you do not put success at the forefront, but main goal his life to still determine his own personal development (and consider success as a side effect of development), then (as practice shows) success becomes much more achievable.
support. It is important on the path of your own development (it is also the path to success) to be able to find support for yourself wherever you can get it. For this, it is important for a person to have communication skills, be open to the world and experience, respect himself and others.

If I briefly try to express my basic idea of success and success, then, probably, it can be done like this: If you develop and follow the path intended by nature for you, you will always be successful. Success can be determined according to different criteria, but the main one, after all, is your own attitude towards yourself and your success.

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AT last years only the inhabitants of the remote taiga do not hear anything about success. The generation of the beginning of the 21st century has already grown up, for whom this concept is absolutely natural. Personal achievement becomes incredibly important, as it is they that move us and society towards a better life.

Today you rarely meet a person who blames the state or Uncle Vasya from a neighboring entrance for his failures. People are obsessed with their goals and their actions. Accordingly, they are not up to other people's decisions.

What is human success?

In the 1990s, it seemed like just being on TV was enough. Beautiful and bright artists and businessmen looked at us. And we believed that everything was cool with them.

YouTube has become a trend in the last decade. However, I noticed amazing things. For popularity, it is not at all necessary to have a photogenic appearance and speak like Ekaterina Andreeva. Fame and the right to bring unique ideas to the world are achieved by ordinary boys and girls, as well as their parents and grandparents.

Not everyone needs to shine on the screens. By the way, I myself do not particularly strive to be in the public eye. In filming, I'm more interested in behind-the-scenes work: script and directing. So for me, success is something else.

I have big plans. But to achieve great results, you have to take small steps. For example, in order to work as a blogger, I once read voraciously, devoted a lot of time to preparing for the Russian language and literature and school competitions, wrote articles for the regional newspaper, went to the “School of Journalism” for teenagers, graduated from the Faculty of Philology, studied at courses in texts, worked as a copywriter and Internet marketer.

I think blogging is not the end goal. And what I am now collecting bit by bit, will result in something larger.

Qualities of a successful person

Ability to make instant decisions.
Permanent action.
Subsequence.
Risk.
Faith in the idea.
Absence of fear.
Love for negative experiences.
Desire to develop.
Independence.
High learning ability.
Persistence.
Activity.
The ability to lose.
Establishment of partnerships.
Good and mental health.
Organizational skills.
Self confidence.
Moral principles.
Maturity.
Slight dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs.
Skill and recuperation.

Success in daily activities

For some reason, we believe that people have achieved serious results when they are famous or in a leadership position. In reality, this is not so.

Any person is able to make a feasible contribution to personal development and the evolution of society by small deeds. allows us to regularly do good deeds. To do this, it is enough to carry out their activities with high quality, to be neat in everyday life and benevolent with relatives, friends, colleagues and strangers.

Municipal budgetary educational institution

"Secondary school No. 38 in Shakhty Rostov region»

Conversation with students

"WHO IS A SUCCESSFUL PERSON"

Teacher: Rumyantsova

Lyudmila Valerievna

2015

To him everyone who wants to realize himself as a person strives.

It's great when you his reached.

His compared with the pinnacle of happiness.

He stands next to the word "luck", and they are often confused.

AT him need to believe.

To his to achieve, you need to put in a lot of effort.

It's on the way to him they say to a person - "The road will be mastered by the walking one."

Today I want to talk to you about what, probably, every person aspires to. Anyone who wants to realize himself as a person.

I started our meeting with some statements. You probably already have your own assumptions about what is hidden behind the pronoun "OH" in these phrases. Share with me your thoughts.(student answers)

In fact, today we will talk about success, or rather, what kind of person can be called “successful”.

Guys, name the words that you associate with the word "SUCCESSFUL"(student answers)

Interesting options. And here is the definition of the word "SUCCESSFUL" in his explanatory dictionary Sergei Ivanovich Ozhegov:

Successful - accompanied by success, successful

Guys, name people you know who you can call successful. And why do you think so.

Guys, I want to ask you: “Can a person who has external signs of success be called successful: a car, a watch, an expensive suit?”

Not always.

For example, in the case when it all went to him without difficulty. For example, he won the lottery, received an inheritance, given by his parents. This is not a success, but an accident. And a person can lose all this as quickly as he gains.

When we still cannot call a person successful: when he is internally restless and unsure of himself. I am not sure of my own success.

They say that the letters that make up any word can help reveal its essence. I suggest you play a kind of linguistic game: let's spell out the word "SUCCESS" and select an adjective for each letter that names the qualities of a successful person.

At - successful, persistent

FROM - brave, strong

P - professional, principled

E - one with the world and with oneself

W - broad-minded, quick-witted

H - persistent, independent

O - responsible, organized

FROM - proud

T - hardworking

b (maybe kindness in some cases also helps to become successful)

Let's get back to the examples. successful people. I also made a selection of successful people.

And who are these people in their profession?

Now let's look at our records. What is each of these people doing? Looking at the names of these professions, what conclusion can be drawn?

It's completely different types activities. It means that you can become successful in any business, the main thing is to cultivate in yourself those qualities that we talked about.

And these are far from all the qualities that a successful person can and should have. These are just some touches to the portrait of success.

A person must choose for himself in which area he will become successful. He must first of all ask himself the question: “What do I want to be successful in?” and give yourself direction.

Remember Alice's conversation with the Cheshire Cat:

Please tell me where should I go?

Where do you want to go? asked the Cat.

I don't care ... - said Alice.

Then it doesn't matter where to go, - said the Cat.

This dialogue articulates one of the most important principles for achieving success

Which?

Choose the direction of movement, choose the direction of your activity in which you would like to become successful and develop in yourself those qualities that we talked about. And then, maybe in time, someone will be able to call you a successful person.

But I think that you can already call yourself successful people.

Do you agree with me?(children's answers)

You are successful students, many of you are successful in sports, in creativity.

To wrap up our conversation, I invite you to fill in the blanks on your Ingredients of Success card.

What happened, let it stay with you and help you not to forget about how to become successful in life.

Whether you are successful or not is determined by everyone for himself. And here, it seems to me, a lot depends on whether you are satisfied with the results that you have achieved. If a person has achieved his own goals, but there is still no sense of satisfaction, will he call himself successful, even if everyone around him considers him so? And vice versa - if a person is satisfied with what he has achieved, although success is not at all obvious to those around him, can he be called successful?

I think that success is an internal and very personal state of a person. Just like happiness. A person is successful as much as he himself feels it.

I wish you to feel these sensations and not part with it throughout your life.

And achieving this is one of the popular topics of modern psychology. Let's try to find the answer to a number of questions.

What is the difference between successful and unsuccessful?
How to achieve this?
What are the criteria and standards for success in society?

In modern Russia, the well-being of a citizen is usually judged by the presence of a prestigious car, expensive and known from well-known and fashionable designers, and the opportunity to relax abroad. But, these are only external signs, since a successful person has special features that distinguish him from others. Let's talk about this in more detail.

First. A successful person will look for opportunities, while an unsuccessful person will look for excuses and obstacles. For example, in a difficult situation of lack of money, the first one will find a way to earn money, and the second one will voice the reasons why it is difficult to earn money during the period

Second. A successful person will act despite reluctance, ignorance and fear. Unsuccessful - will postpone "for later." The second category is usually passively waiting for the problem to be solved "by itself".

Third. A successful person is a person who will always strive for more than he currently is. Otherwise, a special life philosophy begins to operate: "Why? It will do as it is."

Fourth. A successful person will not be afraid to fall because he knows he will do anything to get up again. He has no fear or fear. The unsuccessful one is always afraid that he will make a mistake, because he will not even try to get back on his feet.

Fifth. A successful person will not need stimulation from outside, because he is self-motivated, driven by passion and needs to prove his strength, interest and ability to achieve his goal. Otherwise, the maximum amount of effort will be required for the subject to finally realize what he is striving for.

Sixth. The successful are not afraid to take risks because they understand that life is not predictable. That is why negative circumstances can interfere with the most thoughtful plan. But the unsuccessful will refuse to act from this thought. Therefore, only the installation for this will become the main one.

Seventh. A successful person can be patient, ready to go a long way towards his goal. Moreover, he is aware that in order to solve problems, it will be necessary to apply a large number of labor.

Eighth. A successful person will not be afraid to be rejected, and an unsuccessful one will be able to "knock him out of the saddle". Moreover, if you try to achieve something in life, then you cannot do without difficult moments.

Ninth. A successful person believes only in himself, and an unsuccessful person believes in the words and opinions of others about himself and the world around him. Moreover, the second category of citizens usually obey the opinions of the collective, agreeing sooner or later with the generally accepted point of view.

Tenth. A successful person is "helped" in his activity by a big dream, worthy, while an unsuccessful person will pursue small and narrow-minded goals. There are a large number of examples in history when success came when a goal that was unattainable at first sight was chosen. But with the right, even a very bold strategy will be implemented.

Therefore, if we talk about how to be a successful person, then the unequivocal answer can be the following. It is recommended to develop in yourself the qualities necessary for this. It is available to everyone if there is a desire.

If we talk about how to try to develop these qualities, then you need to keep in mind. Only if there is a constant development and adjustment of one's thoughts and actions in the indicated direction, then it will be possible to become successful very quickly.